Here's How Jennifer Garner and Marc Anthony Really Feel About Bennifer

I have to admit, it's got to feel a little weird when your ex gets back together with the person they dated before you, making it feel like your whole relationship was obsolete. But that's not how Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck's exes feel. In fact, they're supportive — even after all the PDA-filled European vacation pics.

"Jen Garner and Marc Anthony are continuing to be supportive and there doesn't seem to be any ill will across the board," a source told Entertainment Tonight."They all just want what's best for each other and their families."

Even their kids are in support of whatever makes them happy, the source adds. "Their kids just want to see their parents happy and they are what is most important to both of them. J.Lo's kids are so glad to see their mom so in love."

Back in May when the news of Bennifer's reunion was at its peak, a source weighed in on how Garner was feeling about the situation, saying she was solely focused on their three kids, Violet, 15; Serafina, 12; and Samuel, 9, and "doesn't want to be a part of the circus or media attention in any way."

"She's trying to live her life and raise her kids, and the last thing she wants to be doing is be dealing with Ben's love life," the source told E! News. "Her focus is always on the kids' happiness and Ben being a good father."

As Lopez and Affleck continue to frolic around Italy — their next stop is Nerano, Italy — looking blissfully in love, sources say the two are extremely serious about their relationship this go around. "They are both super passionate and are head over heels with each other, just like they once were," a source told Entertainment Tonight. "This time around, however, they both really feel like this is it."

"They couldn't be more in agreement," the source continued. "They feel at this point in their lives they were undeniably made for each other. Things between Ben and Jen have been easy and that's what makes their relationship work so well. They work seamlessly together and it's like their relationship hardly takes any effort."