Few things are certain in life other than getting older. And with age comes life experience and physical change — including getting gray hairs. While many of us will go gray, the journey to full-on silver hair is different for everyone. Some of us first notice a few white strands around our temples in our 20s, while others first notice a gray patch around the hairline in their 40s. Either way, whether you decide to conceal your grays with hair dye or leave them be is entirely up to you.
Since there's no wrong or right way to go gray, there are a number of ways to blend your silver strands into your existing base color so they're less noticeable or enhance them so they're extra sparkly. Whatever side you prefer, we tapped colorists Emily-Claire Sacco and Kate Reid to find out the best highlights for gray hair.
meet the expert
- Emily-Claire Sacco is a colorist at Rob Peetoom Williamsburg.
- Kate Reid is the Global Color Design Director at Kevin.Murphy.
Ahead, all of the hair color inspiration you need before your next visit to the salon.
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Silver or Ash Blonde Highlights
"Transitioning to gray using highlights can take years as highlights are very fine pieces of color and it takes a lot of them to accumulate enough saturation to break up the harsh line that occurs when growing out natural grays," says Sacci. She recommends adding highlights to blend the grays, then toning them to ash blonde or silver.
Glossy Natural Gray
Natural gray highlights, like Mara Brock Akil's, are low-maintenance and lovely. The two-toned color contrast of gray and black also lends dimension to her hair. Since grays tend to get dry, invest in moisturizing products to optimize hair health and shine.
Warm Demi Gloss
Brunettes who are transitioning to full-on gray, often have a harsh demarcation line separating their light roots and dark ends. For a softer, more seamless look, a gloss is a great option. "A demi gloss color will either enhance warmth or cool all your hairs down," says Reid. "This won't block out the gray, but adds a beautiful refinement to your existing color (and it would grow out with no harsh lines)."
Foil Highlights
"Add reflects or foil on deeper areas to create more lightness and brightness," Reid recommends. "The technique will depend on your starting depth and percentage of grey."
In between appointments, Succo suggests using a root touch-up product to keep your highlights blended.
Bold Chunky Highlights
"Consider taking thicker slices to create boldness and more solid areas," says Reid. JoAni Johnson's chunky highlights are a prime example of this technique.
Herringbone Highlights
This technique consists of blending your grays into your base hair color. Celebrities like Gwyneth Paltrow and Sarah Jessica Parker have both adopted herringbone highlights into their iconic blonde shades.
Face-Framing Highlights
These face-framing gray highlights brighten Kelly Hu's complexion. To ensure your grays stay soft, Sacco recommends using ultra-moisturizing products to wash your hair. Davines Momo Shampoo and Conditioner are formulated to hydrate dry, dehydrated strands.
Silver Roots
Flipping the aforementioned gradient on its head, Hilarie Burton is in her self-proclaimed "silver witch season." Silver roots seamlessly blend into darker lengths for a deeply dimensional color.
Cool Demi Gloss
Blythe Danner's silver-blonde is another example of how a demi gloss can seamlessly blend silver roots with a buttery blonde base. When caring for gray hair, Reid suggests using a color-safe shampoo that's designed to eliminate brassiness such as Kevin.Murphy's Blonde Angel Wash.
Silver Money Piece
A money piece is a bright, often chunky, highlight applied solely to the pieces of hair directly surrounding the face. Honey, ash, and platinum variations are the most popular, but a silvery streak can be quite distinguished. Stacey London's au naturel iteration has been serving as inspiration for years.